Learn to appreciate momentary things.
sometimes we allow our spirits to be broken due to a variety of lows…we must remember “Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass…It’s about learning to dance in the rain.”-Vivian Green
If I have acknowledgment that one of my good friends and their friend that I happen to have met through them aren’t on the best of terms, I keep my distance. I won’t like their stuff on social media, won’t initiate conversation, etc. I feel like that’s a code of conduct for friendship, but I feel like only I abide by it, therefore maybe I got it all wrong. Whatever the case, I follow that code.
Overheard a student talking about an assignment to my professor. I asked my professor is that for this class? She says yeah, but you don’t need extra credit. That’s why I don’t announce extra credit because then my A students try to do it.
That made me feel like an overachiever lol. Just had to note that.
Have a good remainder of your day people. I deleted my twitter so I will now be using tumblr as if it was twitter lol. The struggle of attaining social media.
It took me some time, but I finally understand what it means to have nothing to talk about with your past. What could we possibly have to talk about?! You made that choice, I made the choice best for me, well wishes to you, but we have nothing to talk about. Sorry not sorry.
You can have all the wits and book smarts in the world, you have to be wise in the many aspects of life, not just one.
Proud to say I’m practicing what I preach. I have 2 friends currently dealing with the ex factor that just won’t go away. They did everything to lose these women, and all of a sudden they realize what they’ve lost and want to come back. When my friends tell me about their mechanisms of trying to stay in their lives I just give them the “been there done that” look and tell them they’ll regret not letting it go sooner. The best advice is sometimes straight to the point. I can tell them all about my past, which I sometimes do just so they know I have credibility, but other times I find it to ultimately a waste of time. Truth of the matter is these women are going to do what they want at the end of the day. I could only hope they make the best choice for them. A person can only do what you allow them to do. Empowerment is the key.
Currently wishing I was distracted by good vibes. Love, faith, nature, etc. I have to be careful what I wish for, but wishing I didn’t have to be. Damn.